For many of us who find ourselves feeling confused with our lives being chaotic, have in most instances given up the power of their lives to other people. Anytime we behave irresponsibly, we give our lives over to fate and Spiritual Law, irresponsibly.
Sowing and Reaping is a Spiritual Law at the root of all existence. To act irresponsibly is to believe your behavior has little to no affect on life. Physics says, EVERY ACTION HAS AN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE REACTION. Spiritual Law says, THE ENERGY YOU PUT OUT INTO THE UNIVERSE COMES BACK BIGGER AND STRONGER.
Irresponsibility is acting out of the ignorance of not knowing the power of your actions or thoughts. Thinking what you do has no affect on anyone and/or thing. For example, a group of young adults coming home from having a good time at a bar see a beautiful car, but are envious enough to think breaking the side window of the car would be a fun thing to do. That act is done with the only thought being the imagined shock of the owner upon seeing the damaged car and in the repair. All for a good time!
Spiritual Law is always in operation whether you know about it or not - just like gravity. When the energy returns to the culprits in almost the same fashion in which they gave out the energy, reckless and without thought, many think it’s a matter of bad luck and don’t relate this `luck’ with their previous actions. So they often compound the problem by not seeing the connection between behavior and their future problems, thus repeating this stupidity. Guys in prison often are there out of this ignorance.
People often think their behavior exists in a vacuum of things they do, but don’t believe they have concerns regarding the reaction to those actions. When it does happen in return, they see themselves as the victims of some outside force, rather than the victim of their own behavior. More than 50% of the world functions this way, without a connection to their own behavior.
Responsibility is knowing that connection exists, and conducting one’s life with the knowledge of Spiritual Law operates. A person who doesn’t care about the feelings of others in a relationship, can expect that energy to return in greater force at a time when they may be ready for a relationship.
Scott Baio from the television show Happy Days just ended a reality series Scott Baio is 46 And Pregnant. On the show he met up with a number of ladies from his past that told him the truth about himself and how he treated his lovers. He marries a lady he feels is best for him who has a teenage daughter, and to Baio’s surprise, his lady gives birth to his daughter. What this actually does is give him the perspective of being on the receiving end of the way he treated other women, when his daughters begin to interact with boys and young men. He was already thinking about it.
We take responsibility for our behavior by treating others the way we wish to be treated. You can measure this feeling by seeing yourself on the receiving end of your actions. This tempers how we interact with others. We make proper decisions that enhance our lives rather than putting obstacles in the way. Your actions then take on more power because they fall in line with Spiritual Law bringing more positive energy to the things you do. Living this way leads to fewer conflicts, a life more in harmony with nature and others, and opens energy for greater possibilities. It’s being at one with life. A foundation to happiness and fulfillment!
QUESTION EVERYTHING! THAT'S WHERE THE TRUTH RESIDES.
If only my adult children would understand this. I am being torn apart
inside due to a mothers love. I know I am not responsible for their
actions but it hurts too much knowing what they do to themselves and what
they won't do FOR themselves. 9am I received a call. I now have to live
with the fear of whether my young grandon's mother, my daughter, will be
alive, dead or just passed out when he arrives home from school. Sorry
friend, I said more then I should have. Please keep getting the good word
out to others! Maybe someone will wake up and see the light!
Love to you,
MB
While we cannot control everything, we can certainly make a strong effort
to control ourselves and act responsibly and with thought. It's not always
easy and it's not a one time thing, but an ongoing effort.
Mary Blu, The more we are aware of how our existence works, the easier it
becomes to find our paths in life. All parents can do, is to do the best
they can as stewards. Then it's all on the grown child.